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THROUGH BLUE EYES

LOVE IS THE GREATEST POWER WE HAVE

So let's celebrate, deepen, and share it

Bianca van Elp - wedding officiant and wedding director at Through Blue Eyes

Hi, I'm Bianca

And I believe in getting married from the heart

People have been getting married since ancient times (wow!). And over those thousands of years, quite a few 'rules' have emerged about how it should be done. But hey, it's your day. A moment to pause and reflect with your loved ones. In your world, celebrating your love.

Not someone else's.

As far as I'm concerned, we should put an end to the superficial Disney gloss and the boring 'musts'. Let's go back to the true essence together:

Who are you?

What does your love mean?

What's your story?

Then I help you make choices that align with that.

Is that a dress code where everyone wears glitter? Consider it done! Pizza instead of oysters with champagne? Let's do it! Walking down the aisle to AC/DC's Thunder because you met at their concert? Perfect!

Less 'until death do us part' and more 'I promise to always give you a bite of my dessert'

Marleen Tammeleng

'I can see you officiating weddings'

Those words marked the beginning of my "happily ever after." A fellow entrepreneur said them while looking at me with the utmost seriousness. 'I can see you in a gown'. And all I could think was: Huh, what?! A gown? What kind of gown?

And even though I had absolutely no idea what he meant at the time, that’s where the first seed was planted. Because, yes, I was looking for more depth beyond my work as a moderator. I want to connect with people on an even deeper level.

Within just a few months, that little seed had grown into a full-fledged appointment as a marriage officiant. And guess what? That gown fits me like a glove.

This work is my contribution to a gentler world

Love and connection are everything. If we all let that in a little more, the world would be a much better place. That's why I find weddings so special. It's where everything comes together: sharing love, being seen, and connecting with the people we care about most.

That is what makes this work so incredibly fulfilling.

And yes... I'm not gonna lie: having a castle, a forest, or a country estate as my office is a very nice perk. Who else can say that?

WITH FRESH EYES ...

... I SEE YOU 

Sitting at the kitchen table, talking about your relationship, something special happens.

I get to know you very well, very quickly. Partly because we talk a lot, but also because I observe. A rare eye condition taught me to view the world from a different perspective, which significantly sharpened my intuition. I pick up on patterns, sense energy, and often read between the lines.

This allows me to quickly see who you really are. And in that space, absolutely everything is welcome. The roaring laughter, the tears of frustration, the tight hugs, and the moments of doubt. All of it. Because that is exactly what makes your story yours.

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‘We feel completely understood’

'You have a natural warmth and genuine attention that makes people feel truly seen. During the ceremony, you struck exactly the right chord, with personality, love, and a touch of humor.'

Photography: Lisette Vossebelt

Photography: Lisette Vossebelt

Yvet & Jacco
May 17, 2024

CEREMONY SPEAKER WITH A TWINKLE

In a future life, I could easily be a circus performer (fun fact: I can already do the split). Because I absolutely love entertaining, dancing, and singing. It gives me energy and it connects people. It's no coincidence that music plays such a big role at most weddings. And I'm here for it!

Does this sound like a match made in heaven?

Then let's get to know each other! I can't wait to hear your love story.